And even if the thought of being intimate with others causes you stress and makes you anxious, JAG, you can still explore solo sex. So smoke a little pot, put your feet on the nice man's lap, and try to take pleasure in the pleasure you're giving. I wanted to just keep a good thing going, but he just threw me a curveball that I need help figuring out how to handle.

Some sexual requests are big asks and the third "G" in GGG ("good, giving, and game") has always been qualified: "game for anything — within reason. From your panicked response, FOOTPERV, you'd think this poor guy wanted to cut your toes off and masturbate while you bled out.

Besides ridding yourself of a toxic and abusive ex — and that's harder than people who haven't been in an abusive relationship often realize and I'm so glad you got away from him — did something else happen three years ago that could've tanked your libido, JAG? An absolute must is a chatroom with an experienced bear knowing all the secrets of steamy bareback fuck! And I hope you can see the compliment this great, smart, funny, hot guy was paying you when he asked. His sex advice column “Savage Love” first appeared in The Stranger, Seattle’s alternative weekly, in 1991.

Even if you were to get your hormone levels checked or adjust your psych meds or switch to a new birth control method, I would still recommend seeing a counselor or therapist. And the best advice is also the obvious advice: Find a sex-positive therapist or counselor who can help you work through your trauma and reclaim your sexuality. If you were claustrophobic and your boyfriend wanted to mummify you, FOOTPERV, or if he wanted to use you as a urinal and you weren't into piss, I would totally give you a pass.Enjoy the largest amateur porn community on the net as well as full-length scenes from the top XXX studios. It started as a hookup, but we have chemistry on several levels and, without either of us having to say it, we started seeing each other regularly. PARENTS, PLEASE BE ADVISED: If you are a parent, it is your responsibility to keep any age-restricted content from being displayed to your children or wards. Don’t miss a video chat with a straight guy shy but curious of stripping on cam and having a dirty talk about his gay sexual fantasies. A year ago, I went out on a couple of dates with a man younger than me, he was cute and very interested in me, but I just didn't feel the connection.

While it's not always the case with all kinks, in this instance the most obvious explanation is the likeliest explanation.Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, and author, and has appeared on numerous television shows. By entering this site, you acknowledge that you are of legal age to view erotic male foot fetish images and videos of male feet, mens' socks and guy tickling and that it is legal to view these erotic images at your location. And if you really hate it, FOOTPERV, if it freaks you out to have polished toenails — or if your masculinity is really so fragile it shatters under the weight of toenail polish — then you don't have to do it again. Honestly I was thinking about this long time ago but now I am pretty much sure that I will try to sell my pics on Feetfinder etc.

I'm a 37-year-old female who, almost three years ago, got out of a six-year toxic, violent relationship with a man I believe I loved.We live in a deeply sex- and kink-negative culture, and our first reaction when a partner discloses a kink is often a knee-jerk negative reaction to the idea of kinks at all. Screenshots, stories, problem-solving, feature requests, profile reviews, rants, memes, advice, and more.