The standard rider-on-top position has the penetrator laying on their back, and the receiver straddling their hips,” says clinical sexologist Megan Stubbs, EdD, author of the forthcoming book “ Playing Without a Partner: A Single’s Guide to Sex, Dating, and Happiness. If you have a vulva and have had difficulty orgasming in the past, DeSeta points out this could be a great position since you can move at whatever position feels best for you. Adding more lube on top of that generates a new dimension to the sensations and decreases any bits of friction. Hold your partner's hands above their head, or restrain them using cuffs, for a new, more dominant take on this position. The cowgirl is a popular sex position well known for its ease and its literal visual translation for "girl on top.

The great thing about the cowgirl position is that you have way more control over depth,” says Deysach. Because your bodies are so close together, you may be able to rub your clitoris against their pelvis. Remember that there is no one size fits all solution here, and what felt good with your last partner may not feel good with your next one,” says Deysach.It's an incredible way to do it, [but] don't be afraid to try out other motions that feel good," she says. It serves as a reminder that there are still untamed frontiers waiting to be discovered right here in our own backyard.

We are a family friendly horseback riding company nestled in the breath taking Blue Ridge Mountains. Here's how to get into the cowgirl position, and some variations on cowgirl that can spice things up. For the same reason, we can not permit riders under the age of 6 or anyone that is over 240 pounds go out on the trails.

is a team of creatives and technologists in UK, US and Europe on a mission to help you feel great about your home. If you’re being penetrated vaginally, “you can always bring your butt into the scene by wearing a butt plug,” says Stubbs. Keep in mind that anyone can view public collections—they may also appear in recommendations and other places. The cowgirl positions put women in control of their own pleasure and also helps to add some variety and spice to any sexual experience," Smith says. Stimulating your clitoris can make you more likely to have an orgasm — in a 2015 survey, 37% of women said they're only able to orgasm during sex if their clitoris is stimulated.

The rider sits on top of them in a straddling or squatting position with their knees bent around their partner's hips. The person on the bottom is able to receive and use their hands while the person on top rides them both to orgasmic bliss. If your pelvis is tilted away from your partner’s face, they’re more likely to stimulate your G-spot. The person on top can then insert the bottom partner's penis, dildo, or fingers into their vagina or anus and proceed to ride their partner, simulating the movements of a horse's bouncing motion.

This allows your partner to feel like they are reliable and highlights their strength even from being on the bottom," Violet says. We love nothing more than watching people have the time of their lives as they conquer their fears and ride for the first time. One option, if it feels too deep, is to rise up and keep the in-and-out shallow as you do so,” she says.

The straps will help support the rider’s weight, while also helping them bounce up and down on their partner. Keep in mind that horses do not know voice commands, so it is crucial that everyone listens to the guides' riding instructions before we go on the trails! Registration on or use of this site constitutes acceptance of our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy.To get a little deeper, DeSeta suggests the penetrating partner place their feet flat on the bed, bending their knees, and lifting their hips. She notes that it can be vulnerable to be on display, but instead of shying away from it, take this as an opportunity to own your sexual self. You can also try raising one knee, while keeping the other in a kneeling position, to take some of the pressure off your glutes. If you have a vulva and enjoy clitoral stimulation, Stubbs suggests lying flat on your partner’s stomach. The cowgirl is often a favorite among women because it allows women to have more control within the sexual experience, allowing her to be freer in her movements," says Rachel Smith, LMFT, couples and sex therapist in private practice.